Podcast Summary
In this episode of the Working Well Podcast, host Tim Borys speaks with Bianca D’Alessio—top New York real estate broker, star of Selling the Hamptons, and author of Mastering Intentions.
Bianca shares her journey from personal adversity to professional success, revealing how authenticity, mindset, and wellbeing became her greatest leadership tools. She discusses the power of vulnerability in business, why traditional hustle culture is broken, and how intention—not intensity—drives sustainable achievement.
Listeners will learn how to align success with self-awareness, lead with empathy, and turn challenges into a source of strength.
✅ Key Takeaways
Authenticity is power — being real builds trust, connection, and influence.
Vulnerability fuels leadership — openness invites respect and engagement.
Intention over intensity — success is built on mindful action, not burnout.
Your mindset shapes momentum — adversity can become your greatest advantage.
Wellbeing isn’t optional — it’s the foundation for long-term growth and performance.
Episode Links & Resources
Connect with Bianca here:
Website: biancadalessio.com
nestseekersmastersdivision.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/biancadalessio/
New Book: Mastering Intentions: 10 Practices to Amplify Power and Lead with Lasting Impact
Podcast Highlights
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Introduction: Meet Bianca D’Alessio
Host Tim Borys welcomes Bianca D’Alessio, one of New York’s top real estate brokers and star of Selling the Hamptons. Beyond her success in luxury real estate, Bianca is an author and thought leader who champions authenticity, wellbeing, and intention as the core of modern leadership.
From Adversity to Intention
Bianca shares her story of facing personal and professional setbacks early in her career. Instead of hiding her struggles, she chose to confront them—and that choice became her greatest strength. Her book Mastering Intentions emerged from the lessons she learned about aligning mindset, purpose, and performance.
Breaking the Hustle Culture
The old idea of success—grinding harder, sleeping less, and constantly proving yourself—no longer works. Bianca argues that intentional focus and emotional clarity create far better results than endless hustle. Leaders who protect their energy are the ones who sustain long-term impact.
Authenticity and Vulnerability in Leadership
For Bianca, authenticity isn’t about oversharing—it’s about leading with honesty. Vulnerability builds trust, invites collaboration, and creates human connection. In leadership, pretending to have all the answers blocks growth, while authenticity fuels it.
Mindset as a Superpower
Bianca discusses the role of mindset in navigating adversity. Challenges aren’t roadblocks—they’re training grounds for resilience. Shifting from “why me” to “what can I learn from this?” transforms how leaders respond to setbacks and pressure.
Building a Culture of Wellbeing
High performance isn’t about pushing harder—it’s about creating environments where people can thrive. Bianca emphasizes that leaders who invest in wellbeing drive stronger culture, loyalty, and creativity across their teams.
Closing Reflections
Bianca’s message is clear: Authenticity and intention are the future of leadership. By aligning who you are with what you do, you not only achieve more—you inspire others to do the same.
