#065 – Find Your Why | 52 Life Lessons – Lesson 2 – P2

Podcast Summary

In this second part of Lesson 2 in the 52 Life Lessons series, host Tim Borys moves beyond simply identifying your why—into the practical steps of living it every single day. Purpose isn’t a motivational poster—it’s the compass that guides decisions, shapes habits, and fuels resilience in both life and leadership.

Tim shares how to translate big-picture purpose into small, consistent actions, while avoiding the pitfalls of “purpose overwhelm.” From morning rituals to goal alignment, you’ll learn how to ensure your why is not just written in a journal—it’s baked into your schedule, choices, and relationships.


Key Takeaways

  • Purpose without action is potential wasted — your why matters only if you live it daily.

  • Anchor your why to habits — make purpose practical through repeatable behaviors.

  • Beware “purpose overwhelm” — you don’t need to overhaul your life overnight.

  • Micro-moments matter — consistent small actions reinforce your values more than rare grand gestures.

  • Check for alignment — if your calendar and commitments don’t reflect your why, something needs to change.

  • Purpose compounds — small, aligned actions build trust, momentum, and fulfillment over time.

Episode Links & Resources

Resources Mentioned:

Connect with Tim: https://timborys.com/book-tim/
Buy Tim’s Book: The Fitness Curveball (Amazon Link) 

Podcast Highlights

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Welcome to Lesson 2, Part 2 of the 52 Life Lessons series. In the previous episode, we explored how to find your why. Today, we’re focusing on the next—and often harder—step: how to live your why every single day.


Why Knowing Isn’t Enough

A purpose statement written in a notebook is just words. Without integration into your daily decisions and actions, it’s like having a compass you never use. The goal is to make your why actionable—so that it becomes part of your default operating system.


Aligning Habits With Purpose

Your habits are where your why lives or dies. Small, repeatable actions—like how you start your morning, how you speak to people, how you handle challenges—are the true proof of your purpose. If your habits contradict your why, you’re creating internal conflict.


The Trap of Purpose Overwhelm

Many people discover their why and then try to overhaul everything at once. This leads to burnout and frustration. Instead, start with micro-moments—little decisions that reflect your values and move you toward your bigger vision.


Micro-Moments: The Building Blocks of Purpose

It’s not about giant leaps—it’s about consistency. Whether it’s taking 10 minutes to connect with your kids before work or making time for movement, these micro-moments are where purpose becomes reality.


Alignment Check — The Calendar Test

Look at your calendar. Does it reflect your why? If your commitments, meetings, and energy use don’t align with what matters most, you’re drifting. Purpose is a daily calibration, not a one-time declaration.


The Compound Effect of Purposeful Living

Purpose builds trust and momentum over time. Every aligned action reinforces your identity and your reputation—both with yourself and others. Small actions compound into a life that reflects your values.


Closing Thoughts

Living your why isn’t about perfection—it’s about consistency. You will get off track, and that’s okay. The key is to notice, realign, and keep going. Purpose is not a finish line—it’s a way of living.

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